Other part to my weird pregnancy question?

The guy is a piece of crap....you dont need a guy like that, or let your child be around a guy like that. Dont talk to him, stress is bad on a baby. Don't worry about it, I felt weird to at first when I was pregnant, then when I felt him kick, I got more use to the fact...not so much grossed out by something living in my belly....but just amazed what my body can do. Ditch the jerk, and I am sure you have family that would absolutely be there for your child, you dont need a bad influence around your child, a man that could actually say that he hopes his baby dies.....He doesnt deserve to be a father or human